A Real Friend is Worth Thousand People

Sometimes, as human being you will feel totally different from others. The way you talk, listen, walk or do an activity may be totally different but the purpose to live a life would be the same. A miser will look good to be accompanied by a miser. A doctor will look good with a doctor. If he/she spends time with an engineer it will not worth as if he would have spent this time with another doctor. It's okay to spend sometimes with different type of people though your 75% time should be spent with the one with similar thoughts/attitude. For Example, a doctor friend to an engineer will spend only 25% of time together - doctor goes to hospital whereas, the engineer goes to a site or totally different location to work. Doctor friends although they may not be assigned to the same hospital but would be connected through interactions since the profession is the same. They understand each other and they speak about what they do due to similarities in their work. In a society where I live, the life really depends on a friend. He/she would be the one to weep your stress, help you to smoothen your life path. This friend could be Tajik, Hazara, Ozbak, Hotak or Jalalabadi. The root of different problems caused by the environment today in this society is that we do not choose our friend professionally and start complaining about him/her. It is you who selected him/her as friend then why don't you complain about yourself instead complaining him/her.

You will have thousand friends but the real one would be the one, when you need him he will always be there. If you have a problem he/she would be there to help. A real friend always defends you from bad friends with good opinions about your life (job, personal life). A good friend will look for your benefit as if he is looking for his own benefits but a bad friend always looks for his benefits even if you scarify your life for him. Bad people live for themselves while good ones live for others. Bad friend will always ask you for things i.e money but good one will give you what you want. Therefore, I always say “A real friend worth's 1000 people".