Think twice act well thought-out

Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison.

Once Luqman, The Wise said to his son, "Oh son! Do not tie your heart in seeking the pleasure of people. You are not likely to succeed. Do not pay attention to what people say. Instead tell yourself always to seek the pleasure of Allah."

Luqman, The Wise wanted this lesson to be always remembered and never to be forgotten. He thought of a way. So, he then told his son to ride a donkey and the son obeyed. The father followed behind on foot. They traveled in this way for some distance.

After some distance they came across a group of people. Seeing the son on the donkey, one of them said, "What an impolite and bad boy. The old father is walking on foot. The young son is comfortably riding on the donkey. This is no manner to show respect to one's father."

Father and son heard this. The son came down from the donkey. Luqman (as), The Wise rode on the donkey.

After some distance they came across another group of people. On seeing the father riding the donkey, the elder of the group said, "Oh you old man! This is not the way to bring up a son. You make him walk in the hot sun, while you sit comfortably on the donkey."

Luqman, The Wise paid attention to what the people said. He came down from the donkey. Both father and son walked on foot. The donkey walked in front. They went a little further.

Personal Perception: Key to happiness and success People seeing them, said, "How foolish you are? You walk behind a donkey. Why don't you ride it?"

Luqman, The Wise and his son once again accepted what the people said. They both rode the donkey and went further. They came across a river. There was a bridge to be crossed. Some people were sitting there. They saw Luqman (as), The Wise and his son riding the donkey. One of them said, "It is very unkind and cruel of you two to ride on the poor donkey. The little animal can hardly take all your burden."

So taking this advice Luqman, The Wise and his son dismounted from the donkey. They traveled a little distance further. Looking very lovingly Luqman, The Wise said to his son, "You have heard and seen what the people said. It must have assured you, by now, that whatever you do or whichever way you move, one is not able to please the people of the world." You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Luqman, The Wise pointed at the flowing river and added, "A person can build a wall across the river. It will stop the flow of the water. But it is not possible to shut the mouth of the people from criticism."

My Role as an Afghan

A ship, floating in water and getting to its destination has a sailor, captain, crew, cleaner and a cook. Everybody in the ship has a responsibility, to reach the target but are reliant on each other. How it would be if the captain leaves the journey in half –suppose if he is killed or if a cook doesn’t prepare meal for them. In other words, Farhad Siddiqi is filing & managing the implementation stage. Ajmal and Mrs. Hagha is issuing solicitations or managing the pre-award stage of subcontract and Nancy as captain is here to lead. Although, our objective is the same – to assist the government of Afghanistan, to expand its reach into unstable area and build the capacity of provincial government. THINK if one of us is not properly handling his or her accountability. On broad prospective, Government is another example working in different sectors for the progress and prosperity of the country, handling the liability of million people, in terms of education, food, shelter and other needs.

I, as an Afghan have to fulfill my obligations first and then tell others to do so. If I am not doing so, how can I tell others? I shouldn’t be looking for my success or comfort if it affects others. I shouldn’t be back biting if I am a straightforward. Minor benefit of one can become wickedness of another or team or a family and then of a nation. We, Afghans point out others without looking to our own faults. Each person weighs 100KG none will say that I am fifty. We all individually and then as a nation select our leader but are blaming him as ignorant leader without distinguishing the good and bad. Even we don’t think that we have selected him.

An individual gaffe will become a family hitch that he belongs to, and then of the organization and rising to become of inhabitants’. This can be solved if you as an individual stop what you shouldn’t be doing and promise for ever not to do such things which disappoints others and destroy our motherland.